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The Restroom Issues

 

The Issue:

Transgendered people are sometimes denied access to the most basic of public accommodations: the public restroom. A person in transition, or temporarily crossdressed, occasionally finds they cannot safely use the restroom matching their birth sex, yet if they use the restroom matching their gender presentation, they can be arrested or assaulted.

A transgendered person who is reasonably presentable and does not cause trouble rarely has a problem in public. Most other people in the restroom won't object, unless the person behaves unusually, or uses the restroom different from their gender presentation.

In the workplace, however, a transgendered person is likely to be known to be a transgendered person. People who knew her from the other gender role will know exactly who and what she is. While most people quickly become accustomed to the new gender role and do not have a problem with the new restroom usage, it's not unusual in a large workplace for one or two people to complain.

It's often remarked that, whenever transgendered people come out at work, the issue that always seems to come up is "what restroom will they use?" Restrooms are a mundane part of life, but yet this one issue causes more discussion than any other aspect of the transition. Ironically, it's not objections by coworkers that cause the problem, it's fear among the decision makers that somebody might object.

Fear of offending someone has led employers to very unfortunate solutions. One worker was required to get in her car and drive to a nearby hotel (or go home) to use the restroom. Another had to limit her liquid intake, because she was threatened by both male and female employees that, if she used their restroom, she would be beaten to death. Some employers force the worker to walk long distances to use a single occupancy restroom, or to hang a sign on the restroom door whenever using the restroom.

Some workers have expressed concern about transgendered women using the women's restroom, because they have been taught that a person they think might be a man is not allowed to use the women's room. They feel uncomfortable with that person present in the restroom, not because of any action by that person, but because of status. This can be put into perspective by recalling the Southern USA before 1960. There were separate restrooms for whites and "coloreds." Black people were not allowed in the white restrooms, not because of any action, but because of their status. We have gotten past this obvious racial inequity, and we are now addressing the same issue for transgendered people.

Decisions and Rulings:

Employers facing the restroom issue for the first time are often inclined to apply the "Principle of Least Astonishment", which is that a person who presents as a woman will be less astonishing using the women's restroom than the men's, vice versa for a person presenting as a man. There may be concern, however, from the corporate Legal department that another employee may complain.

This situation has now been resolved by the federal courts. In landmark case Cruzan vs. Davis, a ruling was made in June 2002 by a federal appeals court in Minnesota that an employer is within its rights to instruct a transgendered employee to use the restroom matching their new presentation, and that if another employee complains, the company may offer the complaining employee an accommodation (such a the use of a different restroom by the complaining employee.)

OSHA requires that all workers have unrestricted access to a convenient restroom, and has suggested that a walk of more than 1/4 mile is too far. (See OSHA's regulations , and a clarification.) Indeed, a workers productivity will be impacted if restroom trips require a long walk.

Recommendations:

Transgender at Work urges that each newly out transgendered worker be granted access to a restroom that is safe, convenient, and dignified. Usually, the simplest solution is the best: use the restroom matching the current gender presentation. On the first day of the transition, the employee will begin to use the restroom matching his or her new gender. This decision should be communicated to all employees with the support of management. In our experience, when management supports the right to use a gender-appropriate restroom, other employees go on with their jobs and quickly forget that there was ever an issue.

In most cases involving company-owned buildings with ordinary restrooms, there will not be an issue. In some unusual circumstances, however, an accommodation will be needed. For example: If there is a state or local law about restroom usage, that law must be obeyed. We is currently unaware of any state or local laws that would apply in this situation, but check with your local police department to make sure. If your business uses a public restroom not under the direct control of the business, you should involve the landlord in the discussions. If there are required shower facilities or other situations involving communal disrobing, an accommodation will be necessary. In these cases, exercise creativity, but it is important to keep the outcome safe, convenient, and dignified. Make sure the affected transgendered worker is part of the discussion and buys into the decision.

Success Stories:

Lucent Technologies sets the standard for Best In Class workplace restroom practices. See the EQUAL web site at:

http://www.equal.org/

IBM also has a web site. See the Eagle at: 

http://home.earthlink.net/~eagleibm/

Ohio University found a creative and inexpensive solution.

Dear Abby has addressed the restroom issue in her August 24, 2000, column. 

The late Ann Landers addressed the issue in number of her columns
     Sunday, March 4, 2001
     Thursday, April 12, 2001
     Monday, June 11, 2001
     Monday, August 13, 2001
     Monday, October 29, 2001
The Ann Landers feature is copy write protect and hence we cannot provide copies of these columns. You can obtain copies of these columns at your local public library . Just determine which paper has the feature and ask for the paper for that day. The papers will most likely be store on film.

Ann Landers often recommended PFLAG ,Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, as a good source of information.

PFLAG:

Ann would urge any family in this situation to contact PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays). They have many resources available for transgendered people and their families. Their mailing address is: PFLAG, 1725 M Street, NW, Washington, DC 20036 and the Web address is www.pflag.org. There is also a Canadian PFLAG organization in Toronto. The Canadian chapter can be found at the following address: PFLAG (Toronto) Chapter, 115 Simpson Avenue, Toronto ON M4K 1A1 and the Canadian PFLAG web site is WWW.PFLAG.ca.
 

 
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